Over a glass of cold coffee, we had a wonderful time, while I was ranting about stuff, he started off with the word. Imbalance.I found it hard to refute to his views, mostly because I didn’t want to. Just one of those days, when you just want to hear someone out. Just listen.

Comprise,adjustment tend to lead to imbalance in an relationship (read a woman and man).When one tends to make adjustments, followed by another and yet another, it reaches a point when it becomes a comprise. A comprise that you regret having to start with the first adjustment.

Yes,there are adjustments that one makes in a relationship,two people can never be same in their temperament, behavior, thoughts, however close one may come to being compatible, one is still different from the other, when you decide to be with with this one person, there are little things that you are willing to work on, because in your heart these things take less precedence to this special someone.

Yet again, the adjustment one makes shouldn’t be at the cost of their happiness. It shouldn’t be forced upon.Sooner or later the cracks show up!